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About Episode 075

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect Podcast, Dr. Robin Stern sits down with behavioral economist and bestselling author Daniel Ariely - whose books Misbelief, Predictably Irrational and The Honest Truth About Dishonesty have upended the way we think about decision-making - to expose how gaslighting operates not only between individuals but on a mass scale.

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About Episode 074

In this insightful and uplifting episode, Dr. Robin Stern welcomes award-winning journalist Stacey Colino to explore a concept that feels more important than ever: emotional inflammation.

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About Episode 073

Dr. Robin Stern and Dr. Zorana Ivcevic Pringle explore how creativity is not just artistic expression but a process shaped by emotions, confidence, and choice—revealing how it can thrive in science, everyday decisions, and all areas of life.

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About Episode 072

Dr. Robin Stern and David McLaughlin explore how emotional intelligence and mindfulness can transform leadership, spot gaslighting at work, and build trust and psychological safety in any team.

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About Episode 071

In this thought-provoking episode of The Gaslight Effect Podcast, Ramu Damodaran joins Dr. Robin Stern to explore gaslighting in global politics, media, and diplomacy—and how truth, storytelling, and emotional intelligence shape leadership and change.

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About Episode 070

A powerful episode on gaslighting, trauma, and healing. Dr. Robin Stern and Dr. Robyn Koslowitz explore identity, control, and how to parent with resilience after emotional abuse.

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About Episode 069

In this thought-provoking episode of The Gaslight Effect Podcast, Dr. Robin Stern is joined by Dr. Neta Kligler-Vilenchik and Dr. Ioana Literat to explore how young people are confronting and resisting gaslighting in today’s media and political climates.

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About Episode 068

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern is joined by Diana Feldman—drama therapy pioneer and author of Stuck in a Role—to explore how storytelling, role-play, and creative expression help teens heal from trauma and reclaim their agency.

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About Episode 067

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect podcast, Dr. Robin Stern is thrilled to welcome Dr. Jessica Hoffman, director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence’s high school initiatives, RULER for High Schools and inspirED. Together, they explore the critical role of women mentoring women for Women's History Month

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About Episode 066

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern is thrilled to be joined by Elise Loehnen, author of 'On Our Best Behavior' and the host of 'Pulling The Thread' to discuss self-gaslighting and the stories that hold us back

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About Episode 065

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect podcast, Dr. Robin Stern is thrilled to welcome Eli Harwood, author of Securely Attached and Raising Securely Attached Kids to talk about attachment wounds and why we choose what hurts us

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About Episode 064

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern is thrilled to be joined by Dr. Ingrid Clayton to discuss her upcoming book, Fawning and the fawning trauma response.

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About Episode 063

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect podcast, Dr. Robin Stern is thrilled to welcome Andrea Owen, a globally recognized life coach, dynamic speaker, and the best-selling author of How to Stop Feeling Like Sht* and Make Some Noise.

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About Episode 062

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern is thrilled to be joined by her good friends Horacio Marquínez, the visionary cinematographer behind America Unfiltered, and Dr. Marc Brackett, who served as a producer on the film in addition to his role as founder and director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and author of Permission to Feel.

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About Episode 061

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect podcast, Dr. Robin Stern and Scott Jeffrey Miller discuss leadership, mentorship, and strategies for navigating toxic dynamics, building purpose, and empowering others.

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About Episode 060

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern welcomes former CIA officer Marc Polymeropoulos, a distinguished leader whose experiences offer profound insights into thriving under pressure and navigating the complexities of manipulation—including his own battles with the effects of medical gaslighting in high-stakes environments

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About Episode 059

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect podcast, Dr. Robin Stern is joined by award-winning journalist, author, and NPR correspondent, Elise Hu, to discuss the intricate and often overwhelming world of beauty standards.

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About Episode 058

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Stephanie Quayle about the reality of gaslighting, Stephanie’s personal experience, and how she’s using her platform to empower others to take back their power and rewrite their story.

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About Episode 057

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect podcast, Dr. Robin Stern has a conversation with her colleague and friend Dr. Richard Boyatzis about the gaslighting, his new book, 'The Science of Change' and  intentional change theory

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About Episode 056

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Vanessa Reiser about narcissistic abuse, her journey and the red flags people should look out for in a narcissist

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About Episode 055

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect podcast, Dr. Robin Stern has a conversation with ex-cult member, Jessi Hersey about the gaslighting, coercion and manipulative tactics in the Twin Flames Universe cult

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About Episode 054

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Marceia Cork, also known as The Change Coach®. about grief and gaslighting relationships

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About Episode 053

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern is joined by returning guest Dr. Steven Hassan about the cult of Trump, political gaslighting and mind control

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About Episode 052

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern is joined by her friend and colleague, Dr. Janet Patti to discuss the concept of gaslighting, particularly how it can manifest in educational and organizational settings

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About Episode 051

In this compelling episode of The Gaslight Effect Podcast, Dr. Robin Stern is joined by Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola to explore how protective parents can support their children who have been harmed by coercive controllers, often narcissistic abusers. Christine provides a framework for guiding these parents in showing their children a path to freedom and healing.

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About Episode 050

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern delves into the intricacies of mental health, personal growth, and relationships, with her guest, Dr. Judith Logue. With over 50 years of experience in the field, Dr. Logue is a renowned psychotherapist and psychoanalyst who has dedicated her career to helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of their emotional and mental well-being.

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About Episode 049

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dr. Laura Artusio, where they explore the intricacies of emotional manipulation, mental health, and the journey to reclaiming one's sense of self. Dr. Artusio's expertise in emotional intelligence and psychology provide critical insights into the mechanisms and impacts of gaslighting.

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About Episode 048

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern delves into the insidious tactics of manipulation and control that leave victims questioning their reality, with guest Chris Shelton, former scientologist, giving us his story of how he got into the cult and how he broke free.

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About Episode 047

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern welcomes Dr. Ramani Durvasula. Dr. Ramani is a renowned clinical psychologist, best-selling author, and a leading expert in the field of narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder to discuss gaslighting in narcissistic relationships and her new book, 'It's Not You'.

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About Episode 046

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect Podcast, Dr. Robin Stern welcomes Anne Blythe, the Producer and Host of the acclaimed BTR.ORG Podcast and author of the powerful book "Trauma Mama Husband Drama." Anne is not just a voice of experience; she's a beacon of hope and guidance for countless women navigating the turbulent waters of emotional and psychological abuse.

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About Episode 045

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dr. Janja Lalich, a distinguished sociologist, a leading expert on cults and coercive control, and a guiding light for those navigating the dark waters of psychological manipulation..

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About Episode 044

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect Podcast, Dr. Robin Stern unravels the complexities of belief, identity, and society with political correspondent and author Sarah McCammon.

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About Episode 043

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern is honored to be joined by Sarah Edmondson and Anthony 'Nippy' Ames on escaping Keith Raniere's NXVIM cult.

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About Episode 042

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern dives into the extraordinary journey of Jessica Willis Fisher—a tale of survival, resilience, and the relentless pursuit of truth..

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About Episode 041

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern has the privilege of speaking with Lucas Mack, a survivor of pretty horrific childhood abuse and trauma.

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About Episode 040

On this episode, Dr. Kara Alaimo, author of "Over the Influence: Why Social Media is Toxic for Women and Girls - And How We Can Take It Back," hashes it out with Dr. Robin Stern.

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About Episode 039

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern dives into the transformative journey of Emily Paulson about sobriety, sisterhood, and self-discovery after multilevel marketing.

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About Episode 038

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern has a conversation with Dr. Craig Dowden, a renowned psychologist, executive coach, and author who specializes in unraveling the complexities of gaslighting and its impact on individuals and organizations.

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About Episode 037

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern engages in a candid conversation with Tracey O'Connell MD, integrative health coach and seasoned medical professional, as they unravel the complexities of gaslighting within the healthcare industry.

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About Episode 036

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern shares a conversation with Daniel Goleman, pioneer of emotional intelligence. We'll dive into his new book "Optimal," the power of emotional intelligence in orgs & overcoming gaslighting's impact on psychological safety.

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About Episode 035

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern talks with Hannah Husain about the importance of trusting your own voice in an age where social media often dictates our choices.

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About Episode 034

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern shares a conversation with Dr. Arghavan Salles that is both crucial and empowering. Dr. Salles wears many hats—she's a skilled surgeon, a passionate advocate for diversity and inclusion, and an expert in confronting gaslighting in medicine.

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About Episode 033

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dakota Adams about his courageous story of surviving childhood abuse, and escaping the clutches of his father, the Oath Keepers Founder, Stewart Rhodes.

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About Episode 032

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dr. Kerry McAvoy about her story, marked by heartbreak, betrayal, and the insidious effects of gaslighting and narcissism.

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About Episode 031

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dr. Marc Brackett about the complex world of gaslighting, its interplay with emotional intelligence, & strategies to counteract this manipulation.

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About Episode 030

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern talks with attorney Evan D. Schein, a seasoned attorney and partner at Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein LLP about the role gaslighting plays in prenups

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About Episode 029

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Amanda Knox about being wrongfully accused, incarcerated, and gaslighted by the media.

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About Episode 028

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Brian Dretke and Dr. Debra Rosenzweig about the intricacies of medical negligence and the psychological aftermath of medical gaslighting

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About Episode 027

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Collier Landry story about a murder that rocked his world and the insidious web of gaslighting that ensnared him.

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About Episode 026

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern and Dr. Bonanno delve into a pivotal moment in the modern history--the tragic events of September 11th, 2001

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About Episode 025

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Dr. Grant Brenner, a renowned psychiatrist and author. We explore the fascinating world of mental health, unraveling the complexities of human behavior.

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About Episode 024

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Erika L. Sánchez. Known for her powerful writing and courageous voice, Erika, along with Robin, sheds light on the signs, effects, and strategies to combat gaslighting, drawing from her own experiences and observations.

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About Episode 023

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Phil Franks, the co-founder of Owl & Key about how he overcame gaslighting at home and at work

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About Episode 022

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Tasha Adams, the former wife of Oath Keepers founder Stewart Rhodes to uncover her story of both psychological and physical abuse at the hands of Rhodes .

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About Episode 021

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern talks with author, teacher, & meditation guru Sharon Salzberg to discuss the role of forgiveness in gaslighting

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About Episode 020

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews writer and producer, Daniel Levin. Listen to them discuss the path that led Daniel into the cult at Sarah Lawrence, the bizarre and often terrifying experiences he had, and ultimately his escape from the grip of Larry Ray.

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About Episode 019

On this episode, Dr. Lisa Damour discusses the challenges teenage girls face in today's world and how parents can help navigate them. Host Dr. Robin Stern and Damour provide insight into the pressures girls face and how to support them through adolescence.

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About Episode 018

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews her friend and colleague Dr. Steven Hassan, a leading expert on cults who has dedicated his life to preventative education and helping people recover from their own experiences.

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About Episode 017

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Leslee Udwin, producer and director of the documentary "India's Daughter". Robin and Leslee discuss the process Leslee went through to make this incredibly moving documentary about the brutal rape and death of a woman in India.

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About Episode 016

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Hannah Husain, a seventeen year old student studying abroad this semester, researching gaslighting interactions in relationships - particularly in teenagers.

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About Episode 015

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talked with her close friend and colleague, Alice Forrester about her feelings of being "wrong" and how that has impacted her adult life.

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About Episode 014

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Ian Nichols, co-host of It's Only A Podcast - a horror movie review show about his experiences with gaslighting.

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About Episode 013

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with real-life sisters, psychotherapist Abby Rodman and former beauty executive now life coach Julie Howard, co-hosts of the popular podcast Sisters Cracking Up.

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About Episode 012

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Rachel Simmons, author of Odd Girl Out, a national bestseller that "ignited a long-overdue conversation about the hidden culture of female bullying.".

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About Episode 011

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with recording artist TUCKER about his career, his family, and the relationship that led him to write his hit song 'Can't Help Myself' (with a cameo speaking performance by Robin Stern!) that explains the emotions involved in a relationship in which he felt he might be gaslighting himself.

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About Episode 010

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Annabelle Stone (real name changed to protect her identity) about an all too common occurence - gaslighting in marriage.

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About Episode 009

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Tami Burdick about her journey of self-advocacy in which she worked closely with her doctors to diagnose and cure a rare inflammatory breast disease.

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About Episode 008

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dr. George Bonanno, Professor of Clinical Psychology at Columbia University. Dr. Bonanno is the author of two amazing books - The End of Trauma and The Other Side of Sadness.

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About Episode 007

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Alyssa Haray about generational gaslighting and how Alyssa was able to identify the gaslighting in her family and break the cycle.

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About Episode 006

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Michelle McQuaid, founder of The Wellbeing Lab, on how gaslighting can play a part to people burning out at work.

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About Episode 005

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dr. Paige Sweet, a Sociologist at The University of Michigan, doing work on gender and sexuality, with a specialty in studying domestic violence.

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About Episode 004

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dr. Heidi Brooks, Senior Lecturer in Organizational Behavior at Yale University, about how the remote working phenomenon spurred by the pandemic caused an increase in gaslighting in the workplace.

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About Episode 003

On this episode, Robin works through the underlying feelings that caused Lucy to be a victim of gaslighting, the signs of gaslighting that kept building up within her relationship, and ultimately the insight to recognize what was happening and the strength to take control of her life back from her gaslighter.

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About Episode 002

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect Podcast, Robin talks with Psychology Today’s Hara Marano. During this episode Robin and Hara discuss concepts of inadvertent or accidental gaslighting versus intentional gaslighting as well as red flags related to the two different versions.

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About Episode 001

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect Podcast, Robin talks with New York based divorce and family law attorney Evan Schein. Evan is the Head of Litigation at Berkam Bottger Newman & Schein LLP.

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About Episode 000

Welcome to The Gaslight Effect Podcast. I'm Robin Stern, co-founder and associate director of the Yale Center For Emotional Intelligence and author of the best selling book, The Gaslight Effect.

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Robin Stern, Ph.D., is the Co-founder and Senior Advisor to the Director, Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and an Associate Research Scientist at the Child Study Center at Yale.

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